don't know what love is.we need it cause it is part of our human nature.it hurts because everyone's definition is different which leaves some of us hurt.low-self esteem or poor impulse control contribute to poor choices.we grieve sometimes because we are human and rejection or any loss has its consequences is often left with hurt feelings.we have huge expectations perhaps due to an unclear picture of what is real and tangible. our expectations are sometimes more fantasies and far from reality so we end up with this made up guy and this made up idea of a perfect relationship and end up in HELLO.for the i do and the rest of life.............i couldn't say. i have only been married for a month and it is soon to be a final di


LOVE IS PATIENT AND UNCONDITIONAL ONE. IT IS THE WILLINGNESS TO UNDERSTAND AND TO GIVE UP FOR SOMETHING FOR YOUR LOVE ONE.IT IS PATIENT BECAUSE YOU UNDERSTAND IF THEY CAN'T GIVE BACK THE THINGS WE EXPECT. IT IS UNCONDITIONAL FOR IT HAS NO BOUNDARIES.WE NEED IT BECAUSE WE ARE MADE OUT OF IT. IT HURTS SO MUCH BECAUSE WE DIDN'T GET WHAT WE EXPECT TO RECEIVED.WE MAKE POOR CHOICES IN LIFE BECAUSE WE FOLLOW OUR HEARTS INSTEAD OF OUR HEAD.WE GRIEVE SO MUCH BECAUSE WE LOST OUR LOVE ONE PHYSICALLY AND MENTALLY EVEN THE EXPERIENCE IS NOT GOOD,IT'S A PHYSICAL SEPARATION THAT WE CAN'T FACE IT.HUGE EXPECTATIONS ALWAYS COMES EVERY TIME IN LOVE AND MARRIAGE BECAUSE WE EXPECT TOO MUCH ON IT..IT'S LIKE ROWING A BOAT.AS LONG AS YOU LOVE EACH OTHER AND YOU ARE ABLE TO LEARN TO COMPROMISE AND LEARN TO ACCEPT EACH OTHERS MISTAKE AND LEARN TO BE PATIENT AND RESPECT EACH OTHER YOU WILL LEARN HOW TO SURVIVED.MARRIAGE IS TWO DIFFERENT PERSON PUT IN TO ONE SO YOU HAVE TO LEARN TO ADJUST TO EACH OTHER ..SOMETIMES IT WILL TAKE YEARS AND YEARS , OTHERS DON'T ,OTHERS GET TIRED AND END IN SEPARATION OR DIVORCE.. REMEMBER THESE ---IT'S ALWAYS TWO TO MAKE A MISTAKE AND IF THERE'S A REACTION THERE IS ALWAYS AN ACTION BEFORE THAT. EVERY THING HAS IT'S REASON .BUT IF YOUR WILLING TO WORK ON THAT THEN IT WILL..